He is just not that into you!

Guys always think that we women are hard to comprehend. But for me, I think its the other way round. I am quite a sociable person and I have a number of guys friends. Sometimes we will just sit around and talk abt silly stuffs. And from all the chatting sessions I have with my guys, I noticed one thing that are similar among them. That is, they will never tell girls the cruel fact the' I am just not that into you'. From all the stories I have heard over the years from my guys and girls friends, I have picked out a number of common excuses guys will give when they are JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU:

1) I have just ended a serious relationship, I need some time by myself. (ya, they need some time to look around and see if there are better fishes out there other than you.)

2) I like you, but i am just not ready to be in a r/s. ( Face it girls! The guys just do not like u enough to be in a r/s with u! Move on!)

3) I think we have not known each other long enough. ( If a guy likes u, he wun care even if he just know u for a day, he just wanna be with you)

4) Career is my top priority now. (Come on! If guys can answer call from the boss even when they are having sex, I dun see why they can't concentrate on their career while in a r/s)

5) You are too good... I think I am just not good enough for you. ( I think this is the most stupid excuse a guy can give! Come on, if i am so good, why wouldn't you wanna be with me?)

Above are the are the most used excuses given by a guy when he is just not that into you. Why can't guys tell us straight in the face that' girl, in am just not that into you'? My guys friends tell me that they just feel that its too hurtful and some even say that you nv noe what will happen in the future. There may be a chance that they will feel something for the girl and they dun wan to ruin their possible chances by telling girls that they are just not that into them. Well, i guess we girls just have to learn to be clever and stop finding excuses for guys. The cards should be in our hands! We should let the guys wait on us and not the other way round!

My death is near.... Say goodbye to my friends...

My results are coming out next week... Damn kan chiong... At the mean time, i shall party like an animal first b4 I get back my results... Sg more n more stresses up. Even study also gotta work and thats not to think of the school fees. No money? Got to loan from bank! Pay interest pay till u old liao also must die in sg. No wonder nowadays in sg so many ppl become bald. Wanna get rich in sg, think we can consider setting up clinic treating balding hair. THe more stressed up sg ppl become, the more money u will make! HAiz... Think abt the debts i gotta pay after i got my degree, i also stress. Think the best way is to get a rich guy n support me! haha best! But dunno why i got no such luck! Think sg guys all think sg girls onli like their money, all go find china girls! Idiot man! U think china girls dun love money ah? Girls all love money just guys all love sex! Haiz! Think i just too stress up liao! update again soon!

I noe wat u r thinking!

yeah, adri here! The world cup fever is draining me out! I am so tired these days... Plus disappointed! Brazil made me lose money!!! KNNNCCB!!!! haiz. Forget abt it! Anyway, these few weeks, one of my ex, Mr h has been asking me out. Well, since i got no dates, no harm going out with him right? BUt come on! Its onli 1 date n he has been asking me out ever since!!! Every morning when i wake up, i will be flooded with not 1, not 2 but 5 or 6 smses by him!!! OMG! He is the kind of guy who looks and acted very decent, but come one, in my dictionary, there is no such thing as 'A DECENT GUY'. No guys will date a girl and not wanting to have SEX with them! I don't blame guys for this coz thats what life is for! You live for SEX! And no body dies a virgin coz life fucked the hell out of us! Well, back to mr H. On the first date, he keep his hands to himself. BUT.... thats onli for the first date! On the subsequent dates, he started holding my hands and hugging me and all that. THen there was this one day when we went drinking and after that while he he sent me back home, we kissed in the lift. But thats it, the story ends here! Haha, disappointing right? No sex involved! BUt this is my principle! Good horse dun eat last time grass (hao ma bu chi hui tou chao) Come on, u may be good to me now! But u dump me last time ok? I wun forget de! Guys always regret when they see their exs become so pretty and will try to ask them out after long time of not contacting after break off, hoping that there may still be a chance of getting back together. Even if things does not work out, they can tell their friends that ' hey bro! That cool chick whom u saw me with is actually my ex. We still are on good terms after break off' Come on guys, is there a need to use us girls as an ego boost? Of coz not all guys are like that but most of the guys i met are! Well, but for the time being, i will still continue going out with Mr h. The cards are in my hand now! So I should make good use of it! Its always good to be treated like a princess rather than having me to treat someone like a king. And so far, i haven found someone whom i wanted to treat like a king yet. hehe!
P.S Me a Dan just each bought a beautiful dress and we will be having a dress day on friday. If u happened to see 2 beautiful lady walking down the town wearing dresses, it might be us!

soccer galore

Dan here- its been more than a month since i last blog......but i can tell u one thing....having a full time job really kills my libido....sex don't exists until the weekend with the boyfren....now i know why the durex survey says singaporeans are having lesser sex but u should look at the scrutiny that we come under each day from mon to fri.....whats worse is class starts next week for me, no sex for me?

haha, impossible la based on how much i like the activity......anyway its summer and world cup galore....so how much have u been betting? i know for one thing adri has been haha so anyone with any good tips can kindly share with her.....

anyway i was out with an ex colleague a few weeks back, he brought me to several pubs along mohd sultan the once famous clubbing scene, at first i tot he was a pretty nice chap so i let down my guard against him. He ordered alcohol for me, one aft again even though i told him to stop alr bcoz i was getting giddy alr....but no he din, and his fren was the mgr there so she gave us free drinks....i was almost to the extent of pucking.....although i was conscious of the surrounding but pyhsically my body couldn't take all that much of the alcohol....hence i told him i wanted to go home....

So we went back to his vehicle....drove ard n he said he still wanted to drink so he stoppped at a provision store and bought vodka....aft that he gave the excuse sayin he wan to go to the toilet so we stop somewhere to allow him to use the toilet....Aft that i repeteadly told him tt i wanted to go home coz it was abt 2 plus already and i was bloody tired already but NO....he said he was kind of drunk so why not stop by his place to rest 1st i had no choice.....so back at his place, i was so tired n giddy tt i lied down to rest....aft which he took advantage of me...he started to kiss me, his hands started to move down to my breats as he massaged it....aft which he started getting on top of me and dry humped me....he started to unbotton my top off, unhooked my bra, unzipped my skirt takinf off my panties, aft which he started to finger me which wasn't all tt good coz i had no feeling at all....he took off his clothes and bottoms, and to my horrors a puny dick appeared...it wasn't all tt long....but normally i tot ppl with shorter dick would be compensated with a harder one (correct me if i'm wrong) sadly his wasn't.....so he tot to hav sex with me, so i asked him why are you doing this to me, he said " coz i like u" wat bloody nonsense is that.....so i questioned him again in which he stopped.

An advice to all girls out there, know how to insist in sayin no firmly.....i regretted my actions deeply

fyi: i stopped contacting him aft tt